Making love to the same person the same way for years on end is unavoidably boring. Variety really is the spice of life, and finding ways to do that with your partner is far better than seeking the “spice” outside of the relationship. If your partner is hesitant, start with small changes—trying a new position, for example. And talk to her—preferably when you’re both relaxed and in a good mood. Tell her you love her and are attracted to her, but feel that things could be even better if you tried some new things. When she says, “Like what?” don’t leap right into anal sex or bondage. Maybe a trip to a local sex toy shop is in order, or renting some high-quality, women-centered adult videos. You might be surprised to find your wife is more open to a playful, creative approach to sex than you think. If you’re bored, it’s likely she is too!
My sex life is boring. How do I tell my wife I want to get a little perverted without having her think I’m nuts?
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