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My girlfriend can only orgasm with a vibrator

My girlfriend can only orgasm with a vibrator

One of the major myths about sex is that women will orgasm from penile thrusting alone. It’s just not true. No matter how hard or artfully you bang away, at least half of women will never orgasm. That’s because female orgasm has very little to do with the vagina and everything to do with the clitoris, which usually needs direct, rhythmic stimulation.

Having a girlfriend who’s willing and able to give herself an orgasm with a vibrator is actually a great sign. She knows what turns her on! You need to relax. Incorporate a vibrator into sex if you want. And experiment with finding ways to giver her an orgasm yourself with your fingers or tongue. Try different positions. Rear-entry can be good because the woman can stimulate herself easily while you’re inside her—that’s harder to do with the classic man-on-top “missionary” position. With an open, playful attitude the challenge of finding the best techniques or positions to bring a woman maximum pleasure can be a source of pleasure in itself!

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