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How can I improve my self-esteem?

How can I improve my self-esteem?

Danny has a low sense of self worth and is nervous talking to girls. He had a pretty normal and happy childhood and was raised by loving parents. However, he lacks confidence in himself. How can Danny improve his self-esteem and meet a nice girl?

Harry’s advice:

How do you get self-confidence? That’s a really important question, Danny. Having self- confidence will make you happier and will help you get a girlfriend, which will make you even happier. I have a few tips for you.

You’re nervous about talking to girls because you’re afraid you’ll fail. But, in order to get better at talking to girls, you are going to have to fall flat on your ass a few times. It’s just a fact of life.

The best thing you can do is practice. You need to approach a girl and have a conversation with her. But, how do you start that conversation? When you walk past a beautiful girl, compliment her on her perfume. Say, “wow, you smell great.” If she says she’s married, that’s okay because you’ve just made her day. If she’s single, maybe compliment her shoes or her shirt. Starting a conversation with a girl is all about opening up and taking risk.

You want to make a girl feel desirable. Compliment her, but compliment her on something that’s not too obvious. Don’t just say, “I love your eyes.” That’s too much of a pick-up line and every girl has heard that a million times.

When you do strike up a conversation, really pay attention to what she’s saying. Let her talk. You’re probably too scared to talk, so let her talk. Listen to her and don’t interrupt her when she’s speaking. Women of all ages hate to be interrupted.

Danny, you’ve got to compliment her and let her talk. You’ll be shocked at how much progress you’ll make if you do this. You’ll gain a lot of confidence and you’ll probably score yourself a girlfriend in the process.

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